Gak tau apa yang sebetulnya terjadi di dalam hidup kita…
Semuanya enjel…
Dan serba salah, dan banyak yang sulit untuk dimengerti…
Kenapa siyh sesuatu hal yang begitu mudahnya harus dipersulit untuk mencapai suatu tujuan.
Apa nda bisa berpikir positive untuk hal-hal yang seharusnya tidak membuat kita kecewa?
Apa nda bisa kita jangan menyudutkan diri sendiri? Merasa jauh dari sekitar kita?
Hmmm,,, there’s something that I don’t understand yet…
Month: June 2010
Find The Perfect One
To find the perfect one, maybe it can be so difficult for us. Because nobody’s perfect here.
We always expect that we will have the perfect one… everything he has, it’s perfect. But it feels difficult.
and we can’t nearly get it soon. It needs long time for choosing the best one for us. My personal opinion said that find the perfect someone is difficult and get the imperfect person is easy when we are sincere to try to love him. And one day, we will realize we had gotten the perfect one for us, whereas We used to think he wasn’t a perfect one. That’s life. Never finding awesome thing unless we try to involve our self in this affair.
Assignment Of Speaking I – Dialog “Tourism Of Bau-Bau Town”
Ning : Iin, do you know that our town has many interesting places?
Iin : Yes, I do. I know about that. Why do you ask about it?
Ning : I just want to know where is your favorite place here? I want to compare with my favorite place.
Iin : My favorite place is in Keraton fortress.
Ning : Why do you like it?
Iin : Because from this fort, which still stands erect at the moment, you can find pleasure when you are in Keraton Fortress for looking around scenery of Bau-Bau with the ships or boats sailing back and forth the Butonese strait. Besides that, you can also find a wide range of the historical relics of Butonese sultans.
Ning : Oh, yeah. It sounds interesting. I have ever gone there, and it was really as a beautiful place like your explanation just you gave me.
Iin : How about you? Where is your favorite place?
Ning : Actually, I like all of places here. But, I prefer to Nirwana Beach.
Iin : Do you like visiting there?
Ning : Yes, of course.
Iin : Why? I think it is very hot there and the sun shine can make your skin become brown. Do you like having brown skin?
Ning : Exactly, I don’t like if I have brown skin because I want to keep my skin like this.
Iin : So, why do you like Nirwana Beach?
Ning : Because Nirwana beach is very beautiful beach. It has white sand extending to 1 km and offers a fantastic and unforgettable sunset. On the other side of it, there is a rocky indentation used as a relaxed spot. Besides with relative smooth waves, it allows use go fishing, canoeing, skiing, diving, playing beach volleyball and other aquatic sport. It has also been equipped with several gazebos and some dressing room and rest houses are also available.
Iin : It is so fantastic. I have ever gone there but it was not as good as right now yet.
Ning : Yeah, current situation of Nirwana Beach is better than the first. So, where is other favorite places besides Keraton Fortress?
Iin : Oh, I like Samparona.
Ning : Samparona??? Where is it? Because I just heard that place.
Iin : Samparona is located in Sorawolio subdistrict, 13 km from Bau-Bau. You can get there on foot going through and narrow trail across some rice fields and plantations, as well as dense tropical rain forest. It is located around 7 km of the main road from Bau-Bau to Pasarwajo. The high of waterfall has almost one-hundred meter and it can make you happy after a long walk. It is a big challenge for those who love adventure. Besides, it offers its cool air and a beautifull rain forest as well as the miscellaneous kinds of exotic birds.
Ning : Wow, it is amazing, but I think it sounds dangerous. Furthermore, I don’t like an adventure journey. Huh, I can’t imagine if I do like you do. Maybe, I’ll get tired and I can’t reach the waterfall.
Iin : Ouch, unfortunately, I want to invite you to go there with me next weekend.
Ning : Thanks, but maybe I can’t go with you next time, because I’m not ready yet.
Iin : So, if you don’t like adventure, where do you want to visit while on holiday in addition to the beach?
Ning : I want to go in Lakasa Cave because I never go there. I just can see it in tourism guidebook of Bau-Bau town. It is very beautiful. Based on the tourism guidebook, it tells that Lakasa cave has a unique and beautiful stalactite and stalagmite have hundreds or even thousands of years old. When we enter the mouth of the cave is a journey that quite impressive due to the slippery condition of the cave so that the necessary equipment such as ropes and flashlights. This object is located in Sulaa, Betoambari district, 9 km from downtown of Bau-Bau.
Iin : It sounds like an adventure. But, did not you do not like an adventure?
Ning : Yeah, I don’t like it. But, I think trip to the Lakasa Cave is not as difficult as trip to Samparona. So, it’s better for me to visit Lakasa Cave than Samparona.
POSIPO (Feeding With Hand)
Posipo is one of culture in Buton that still exists until now in the society of Buton. Posipo means feeding with hand.
According tradition, Posipo is a term that refers to procession of tradition ceremony for feeding a pregnant woman with hand when she has the first pregnancy with age of pregnancy about 7 – 9 months. This ceremony is held by mothers and attended by relative or invited guests. It takes 1 – 2 hours with guidance an old woman who called “Bhisa” in Wolio language.
Implementation of Posipo is based at a hope in order that the pregnant woman can get ease in giving birth to the baby for the first time because there is opinion that the first child is an opener for the next birth. In Wolio, it is called Tumpe. The first birth is a special moment, but also it is full of risk for a woman.
The completeness of ceremony can be divided into 2 parts. They are:
- a. Infrastructure of ceremony.
It just needs a single room that can accommodate the invited guests, so they can sit to follow the ceremony.
- b. Equipment of ceremony.
It is the main element of ceremony. There are 2 parts, namely the personal equipment of pregnant woman and the equipment of ceremony. Posipo is not eligible without these two elements.
– The personal equipment of pregnant woman. Such as traditional dress and 2 meters of white cloth.
– The equipment of ceremony, such as
- Water for bathing.
- Legged brass tray (tala koae). It is used to put all types of food that is used for Posipo.
- Food for Posipo. It consists of rice, fish, chicken, and vegetables. They are processed to be traditional food according to recipe of Wolio food. Besides that, there are snacks, like rhomboid shape cake (waje), fried bananas (loka yi hole), bolu, onde – onde, bharuasa, palu, fried sweet potato (ngkaowiowi yi hole).
- Consumption for the invited guests.
The Management of Ceremony
It includes two phases: the preparation and the implementation of ceremony.
a. Preparation
Preparation of Posipo is usually done at least a day before the day of Posipo. In this stage, there are a few things done by organizing family, among others:
1. Setting up the infrastructure and equipment of ceremony.
2. Coordinate with Bhisa (an old woman) from group Walaka.
3. Distribute an invitation to the nearest relatives, neighbors and friends.
b. Implementation
Posipo ceremonial procession is divided into two phases. They are bathing and feeding.
1. Bathing (Pebhaho)
It is an initial activity of Posipo. This ceremonial procession carried out before the invited guests come and a special event involving pregnant woman and Bhisa. This activity is done in the bathroom by using water. The sequence of activities is:
- A pregnant woman who will be bathed uses white cloth as a bandage her body. She is seated on a footstool.
- Then Bhisa takes a good pitcher filled with water which had been prepared, and then she reads a prayer or mantra. After that, Bhisa pours water over herself.
2. Feeding (Posipo)
The event is done after the invited guests attend. The sequence of activities is:
- Pregnant woman with traditional dress sits before invited guests. Then, Bhisa opens the event by lighting incense and reads prayers.
- Doing Posipo. Posipo carried out by each person who attends the ceremony. They feed to pregnant woman alternately with food that is available on the trays. It is started from the closest relatives until the invited guests. After they finish doing that, they usually bring gift, it is like money or something. When this activity is completed, the event continued with having meal for the invited guests.
CERPEN > Cinta yang Tak Pernah Ada
Karena ributnya suasana kelas, gak ada guru yang masuk, aku pergi ke depan pintu kelas. Kusandarkan bahuku di daun pintu sambil melihat suasana di luar kelasku. Seketika itu, aku melihat sepasang mata sedang memandangku dengan sebuah senyuman yang belum pernah aku temukan dari seorang cowok seperti dia. Spontan aku masuk kelas.
“ Ih, aneh banget tuh cowok! Ada apa, ya? Apa ada yang aneh sama penampilanku hingga dia senyum-senyum gitu? Aaaah, bodoh ah! Lupakan, Dis!,” gumamku dalam hati.
Sesaat kemudian, dari jendela kelas, kulihat 3 orang anggota OSIS sedang berjalan menuju ke kelasku.
“ Assalamu’alaikum Warrahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,”kata anggota-anggota OSIS itu.
Serentak suara gaduh di kelasku hilang tak berbekas. Semua diam dan duduk di kursinya masing-masing.
“ Disampaikan kepada seluruh siswa di kelas ini untuk datang sebentar sore karena akan diadakan kerja bakti, berhubung pelaksanaan ulangan semester sudah dekat. Untuk ketua kelas, mohon membawa absen dan mengabsen teman-temannya yang hadir dan aktif, kemudian serahkan ke wali kelasnya. Ada pertanyaan? .”
Di sudut ruangan, kulihat salah seorang temanku mengacungkan tangannya, “ Kak, entar ke sekolah pake baju apa?”
“ Baju renang!,” ucap Wawan spontan. Semua pun tertawa terbahak-bahak. Suasana gaduh itu pun terjadi kembali.
-Heart And Silent-
Terkadang rasa itu datang,
Terkadang rasa itu menghilang,
ingin mengakhiri semua yang terjadi antara aku dan dia, tapi semua dah terlambat,
Rasa ini sudah ada di dalam hati yang paling dalam, yang takkan pernah mati ketika perasaan itu tak ingin menghilang dari dalam hati ini, yang takkan pernah lepas dari pikiranku.
ketika pikiran berperang, melawan semua hasrat dan keinginan yang ada di dalam jiwa, sanubari berkecamuk di dalam hati, Lupakan dan biarkan dia pergi ? atau biarkan dia ada di sisiku dengan memberikan sebuah harapan kosong yang aku takkan pernah tahu apa maksud dan tujuannya ketika dia bersamaku, yang akan selalu menyakiti hati dan perasaanku.
Hati ini ingin berbicara, namun raga takkan pernah sanggup mengumpulkan kekuatan untuk mengucapkannya. Pecundang bukan?
Andai dia tahu bagaimana aku tersiksa karena dia, bagaimana aku menangis karena dia, bagaimana aku menyesal karena waktu dan sikapku yang membiarkan dia terluka dan tersakiti olehku.
Kubiarkan diri ini berdiri, menerima apa yang kudapatkan, tanpa cinta yang tulus yang takkan pernah singgah di dalam hatiku untuk selamanya, untuk menyakitiku, dan untuk membiarkanku menangis di sini…
Hehehehehehe… Created by Ningning…
Sekian dan terima kasih…. Hahahahaha
Hard – Life – Sacrifice
Life is not easy to be faced.
It needs the struggle.
Many obstacles we have for achieving a success. Although it hurts us. But, it’s the fact…
It’s not easy one.
Life is indeed not as easy as what we imagine. But it can be easy to face it if we are able to deal with it and through it with calm and patience…
and the success takes sacrifice…
Great achievements require a big sacrifice…
IPSA … I miss you… T.T
NingSyafitri…
Love Isn’t An Ending Story
Love is an interested something. It will never end to be told…
Many problems of love appear in our life…
To fulfill our history life…
And make us be more mature for facing this hard life…
We need the struggle and sacrifice, and tears…
So tragic when we have to be bad in Love…
It’s awesome if we are in happiness in love…
We will be both of them exactly…
Don’t regret when we have to make some mistakes…
Don’t do expect about what we’ve gotten…
Coz they aren’t true for us…
Love is not a game…
Love doesn’t need a lier…
Coz Love wants the faithful people that need it…
It’s Love…
The Never Ending Something… But interested something…
Nining Syafitri…
Cara Menciptakan Nama Baik – Pilihan Hidup?
Kenapa juga kita harus hidup dengan menggandeng nama orang tua ataupun nama besar seseorang yang masih ada hubungannya dengan kita untuk kepentingan pribadi?
Bukan dengan cara mengandalkan diri kita sendiri berdasarkan kemampuan yang kita miliki.
Apakah hal itu wajar?
Selalu saja mengandalkan nama-nama “besar” itu.
Untuk mendapatkan kemudahan di dalam pencapaian kepentingan pribadi?
Untuk mempopulerkan diri???
Atau hanya sebagai identitas diri semata?
Kenapa kita tidak bisa menciptakan “nama” sendiri dengan cara kita sendiri?
Sehingga orang-orang tahu siapa diri kita itu melalui kemampuan yang kita miliki, bukan dengan NAMA LAIN.
Kita membangun NAMA BAIK berdasarkan apa yang telah kita miliki dan mengimplementasikannya ke dalam suatu kondisi yang riil, saya rasa itu merupakan suatu karya manusia yang patut diacungi jempol. Membangun NAMA atas nama PRIBADI. Tidak berdasarkan dari keluarga mana, orang tuanya siapa, dan sebagainya… Tidak melihat dari sisi lain, tapi dari sisi dirinya sendiri.
Itulah kehidupan. Banyak pilihan yang harus dipilih di dalam kehidupan ini.
Dan pilihan-pilihan hidup tiap manusia itu berbeda-beda.
Tidak bisa kita saling menyalahkan satu sama lain.
Tidak ada yang patut disalahkan atas pilihan hidup itu.
Manusia memiliki hak untuk mendapatkan haknya sebagai seorang manusia sejati seutuhnya.
Tinggal bagaimana caranya kita menyikapi hal tersebut dengan tidak merugikan orang-orang di sekeliling kita.
SELF CONSIDER itu PENTING Euy!!!
Sebetulnya niyh tulisan dah pernah dimuat di Blog aku yang satunya, di ningningvio.blogspot.com, tapi karena nda mau ketinggalan akhirnya dimuat ulang di blog ini. Hehehe… ^^
10 Desember 2009. Thursday.
Kepercayaan diri itu sangat mutlak dibutuhkan bagi seseorang untuk melakukan apa yang dapat dia lakukan, dalam hal positive thing. Kita tak akan pernah tahu sejauh mana kemampuan yang kita miliki dalam hal tertentu bila kita belum mencoba, yang pada dasarnya akan membawa dampak positif bagi kita. Olehnya itu, kemampuan yang kita miliki yang mampu mengembangkan bakat kita ke arah yang lebih baik akan mampu membawa kita menjadi orang yang memiliki kompetensi yang unggul.
Based on www.radarbuton.com.
Rabu, 09 Dec 2009, | 3
Unesa Unidayan Adakan Debat Bahasa Inggris
BAUBAU-Untuk meningkatkan kualitas dan kemampuan bahasa Inggris mahasiswa Unidayan, organisasi program studi FKIP Bahasa Inggris Unesa (Unidayan English Studen Assosiation) adakan lomba debat Bahasa Inggris antar fakultas, Senin (7/12) hingga Rabu (9/12).